BDSM Toys

What is BDSM?

BDSM encompasses a set of typically erotic and sexual practices established through roles of submission and domination. The acronym BDSM stands for: Bondage (bondage), Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism . It is also colloquially known as "sado" or "sadomaso."

In BDSM erotic play there are two main roles, dominant and submissive. In this way, the dominant takes control of the action and the submissive follows the direction of the dominant . An example of how this would be carried out would be for the dominant to ask the submissive to
give a massage or have the dominant spank the submissive. It is also known
as a switch or versatile person who enjoys performing both roles.

For many, BDSM is more than a practice; they experience it as a community or lifestyle. However, you can enjoy some aspects of BDSM simply as an addition to your sex life, as a tool to stimulate desire and fantasy.

What categories of BDSM bondage toys do we sell at Divino Secret?

• Restraint sex toys : These toys limit mobility and create a sense of loss of control. These include handcuffs, gags, collars, and more.

• Penetration toys: Any of our dildos and anal plugs can fit here. There are vibrating and non-vibrating penetration toys. With these toys, the dominant can control the submissive's pleasure, arousal, orgasm, etc.

• Striking toys: This includes whips, leather paddles, and other similar products. These products are designed to produce a small amount of pain, thereby stimulating arousal and orgasm without actually harming the person.

We also offer harnesses or strap-ons for anal and vaginal penetration that can be adjusted to suit different body types and couples.

What are BDSM toys?

BDSM toys are accessories and tools designed for bondage, discipline, domination, and submission practices. These toys include handcuffs, whips, gags, ropes, collars, and more, and are intended to explore power dynamics and intense sensations in a safe, consensual environment.

How can I
practice BDSM or bondage safely?

Any of these practices without proper precautions is potentially dangerous. It's important to remember that while part of BDSM involves "hurting," it should still be a game with clear rules, where the ultimate goal is enjoyment.

The key to BDSM is to act in a safe, sensible, and consensual manner. To achieve this, everyone involved must
be aware of what is going to happen and how, what elements will be used and their
utility. There should be a conversation about the limits of each one, as to
to the form and intensity of the relationships. In addition, it is important to differentiate the
reality of fantasy, since what may be erotic in theory
It can be painful and dangerous in practice.

Of course, for a
sexual intercourse is consensual, consciousness cannot be altered by drugs, alcohol, manipulation, etc. It is also important to remember that
Either party can change their mind and end the relationship at any time. A widely used resource in BDSM relationships is the safe word . This is a code chosen by both of you that will be used when an emotional or physical limit has been crossed and implies the end of the action.

If you're using a gag, you won't be able to use the safe word, so it's important to have other types of physical cues. They need to be simple and versatile, and they'll work even if the person is severely restrained, such as making a fist. For these cues to work, the dominant's attention to the submissive must be constant and cautious.

How to properly use toys from the BDSM section?

Any toy intended for penetration must be used with caution. Since in BDSM games it's common for the dominant to stimulate the submissive with toys, it's essential that toys intended for penetration be of a realistic size. Likewise, all penetration toys, whether vibrating or not, should be used with plenty of lubricant, which will prevent micro-wounds, which are potential sources of infection.

If the submissive has never used a butt plug before, it's not logical to use one that's too large or difficult to penetrate . Furthermore, if the person receiving penetration has a shorter, narrower, or more sensitive vaginal canal, using a dildo that's too large would be too painful to be pleasurable.

Of course, restraint toys like necklaces have the potential risk of choking, so they have to be used with caution.
Be very careful, always paying attention to the submissive, not only to what he says, but also to his non-verbal language, so that everyone can enjoy the
experience. The force used must be measured, the objective of the game is to create
a sense of control, without the person actually suffering.

Special Note for CALIFORNIA EXOTICS - Boundless Body and Neck Restraint . This is a very erotic and aesthetic toy, but simultaneously restraining the torso, wrists, and throat poses a greater risk of injury. Please use with special care.
caution.

Finally, regarding spanking toys , it's very important not to hit areas where injury is dangerous. The buttocks are a safe and sexy area to spank. You must be careful not to cause bruising, bleeding, or pain that lingers for hours after intercourse. To do this,
The key is to notice the person's reactions, to really pay attention.
to the other and not get carried away by the excitement of the moment.

Is it necessary to use lubricant with anal sex toys?

Yes, lubricant is essential when using anal sex toys. The anus doesn't produce natural lubrication, so a good water-based or silicone-based lubricant will help reduce friction and increase comfort during use.

Among bondage toys, which is the best sex swing for BDSM?

Using swings for couples can greatly enhance the interaction and pleasure of BDSM sex. If you're new to bondage toys, we recommend starting with a simple swing and gradually experimenting with different positions.

What precautions should I take when using BDSM toys?

Safety and consent are paramount in BDSM. Always set clear boundaries and use a safe word. Also, learn the techniques and proper use of each toy to avoid injury. Make sure you have quick-release tools on hand, especially when using rope or handcuffs.

What should I do?
know about anal plugs?

The most important thing about plugs is that they have a wide, solid butt, otherwise your anus could absorb it, which would be dangerous and unpleasant. As you can see, we have different types of plugs, the narrower ones being easier to insert than the wider ones. If this is your first time using an anal toy, we recommend using a very small one like the INTENSE - fucksia Anal Plug.

Which BDSM toys help you explore new dimensions of pleasure as a couple?

Many couples find that incorporating sex swings, BDSM kits, and vibrating butt plugs opens new doors to pleasure, combining dominance, submission, and a highly erotic component. You can also enhance the experience with erotic massage oils or board games designed to stimulate desire.

What is the difference between erotic play and real BDSM practice?

Erotic games can include gentle dynamics like blindfolds or plush handcuffs, while BDSM encompasses a wide range of more intense practices such as discipline, bondage, and sadism. In both cases, it's essential to set clear boundaries and use accessories specifically designed for each type of play. Discover our best-selling erotic games here.

What types of BDSM collars and bondage accessories are available?

In our shop, you'll find everything from decorative BDSM collars to collars with functional rings for domination play. Some BDSM kits also include gags, nipple clamps, or Wartenberg wheels, ideal for those seeking pleasure through intense, controlled stimulation.

Can I use metal or glass dildos in BDSM practices?

Yes. Glass or metal dildos are perfect for temperature or control play, as they offer unique sensations and greater precision. They are highly valued within the BDSM world for their firmness, hygiene, and elegant aesthetic. It's recommended to use them with water-based lubricants to avoid damaging the material.

How do cock rings and chastity belts influence BDSM play?

Both are very popular devices for pleasure control. Cock rings can delay ejaculation or maintain an erection, while chastity belts are designed for longer dynamics of submission, abstinence, or power play. They bring a very intense mental dimension to the relationship.

What type of lubricants are most recommended for BDSM practices?

It depends on the type of play. For anal toys, we recommend using silicone-based or water-based anal lubricants. If you're using metal dildos or large plugs, opt for thick, long-lasting textures. You can also try flavored lubricants if the play includes oral sex.

Are there BDSM toys specifically designed for men?

Yes. We offer harnesses, vibrating penis rings, anal plugs, and vacuum pumps designed to stimulate the perineal and prostate areas. We also offer premium men's lingerie that can be used in role-playing and domination situations.

How to combine pleasure with pain without putting sexual health at risk?

The secret lies in balance. Products such as floggers, bondage ropes, and urethral dilators must be used with technique and caution. The use of a safe word and constant communication are key to ensuring that erotic pain doesn't cross established boundaries and that everyone enjoys controlled sensations.

What toys can I include in a complete BDSM kit?

A good assortment of BDSM toys will include handcuffs, bondage ropes, gags, collars, butt plugs, whips, and a suction vibrator or double-ended dildos to combine punishment and reward. At Divino Secreto, you have plenty to choose from to create your own set tailored to your interests and limits.

What types of anal sex toys are recommended for BDSM?

Within the practice of BDSM bondage sex we can include some anal sex toys , the most notable of which can be:

- Anal plugs

- Anal vibrators

- Vibrators for men


- Vibrators for women (usually also designed for the anatomy of the anus)

What sex toys can I combine with a BDSM toy?

This type of erotic item can be combined with any type of sex toy. From the Divine Secret team we recommend:

- Dildos

- Sex harnesses

- Women's erotic lingerie

- Anal toys

- BDSM Toys

- Sex pillows

- Anal Plugs

- Erotic games

- Sex rings

- Sex pillows

- Sex dolls

- Sex swings

- Sexual lubricants

- Penis sheaths

- Clitoral suckers

-Women's perfumes with pheromones

- Toys for couples

- BDSM Handcuffs

- BDSM whips

SEXOLOGIST ADVICE:

If you've never experimented with your anus, try it with a finger before buying an anal toy. Your own or your partner's. Once you're sure you like this type of anal toy,
stimulation, go ahead! Enjoy our products.