The Asteria vibrating microphone and couples play
Asteria comes from the Greek word Asteríe, which in turn comes from astér, meaning star. This is no coincidence, because this delicate, silky-smooth product can take you to the stars if used properly. Asteria, the goddess of the stars, presided over nighttime rituals and ruled the darkness. This product, also known as a vibrating microphone, invites you to experience the intimacy of the night from a place of desire and pleasure.
There's an exercise known as sensory focusing, developed by renowned sexologists Masters and Johnson. It's often used in therapeutic contexts to address sexual dysfunction. However, this exercise has the potential to activate desire and intimacy, so the team of sexologists at Divino Secret wanted to present it to you as a couples game. Although many products in our sex toy store can be used for this game, Asteria is the ideal erotic accessory due to its versatility and delicacy.
Game of the senses:
(Game designed by the sexologists of Divine Secret, it has no therapeutic objectives)
What we're looking for in this exercise is to put aside fears, embarrassment, concerns about one's image, and, above all, the pressure of penetration, ejaculation, and orgasm. The ideal way to play this game is to be open to the experience and eager to rekindle desire.
A very important point is the environment. It should be done in a comfortable place free from interruptions, such as a private room with a lock. If possible, it should be a place where loud noises won't distract from the exercise, allowing you to practice mindfulness. It's also recommended that it be a time of day when there's no time constraints or rush to do something else, since worry inhibits creativity.
PHASE I. In the first phase of this game , one partner will cover their eyes while the other explores their body, avoiding touching their breasts and genitals. Thus, by not allowing masturbation or intercourse, the most essential and basic aspect of a sexual relationship remains: desire.
The goal of this phase is for one partner to focus on their sensations while the other partner observes their partner with special attention. Positions are then changed so both partners can experience this fun game.
The best thing about this phase is that it forces you to focus on the body beyond your usual experience and discover other sources of pleasure, such as the navel or the earlobe. In the original sensory focus exercise, actions are limited to caresses, but at Divine Secret, we recommend exploring the other person's body with curiosity, being creative, and allowing yourself to caress, pinch, bite, and massage the entire body with Asteria.
Just like in the original exercise, feedback would be reserved for the end. But in Divine Secret, we advocate for constant communication. We want couples to get used to talking during sex, to respectfully expressing the good and bad. " Fast, slow, continue, not there, I like it, I love it, etc." This is the best way to increase the quality of sexual relations.
PHASE II. In this second phase, we'll repeat the same exercise another day, allowing intimate areas to be touched, but without climaxing. This way, the sensations will intensify and the desire will increase. The goal is for the genitals not to be the focus of the relationship, but rather an integral part of it. Continue massaging your entire body with Asteria and keep innovating .
PHASE III. Finally, on a different day than before , all the previous steps will be performed to increase arousal (always maintaining innovation and enjoyment, never as routine). So that you can finally reach orgasm , either through intercourse or masturbation. Go ahead!
- This game is not designed for therapeutic purposes, and if you have any problems, please do not hesitate to contact a sexologist.
Once you've played this fun game, you can repeat it again and again, adding variations, such as other sex toys, erotic massage oils, or some of our erotic kits to stimulate your fantasy. At home, allow yourself to vary and redo this exercise however you find most enjoyable. The important thing is to spend time with your body and your partner's body with care and affection to strengthen the bond, intimacy, and enhance desire.
