Talking about anal sex is no longer taboo. More and more people are discovering that exploring this area can open up a new dimension of pleasure, as long as it's done with respect, information, and preparation. For those who want to get started safely and comfortably, anal plugs are the best ally: discreet, anatomical, and designed to accompany you step by step.
In this article, we explain how to use an anal plug correctly , what to consider when choosing your first one, and why it's the ideal option to start enjoying anal sex without rushing or pressure.
What is an anal plug?
An anal plug (also known as a dilator or butt plug) is a sex toy specifically designed for anal stimulation and training. Unlike other toys, the plug has a wide base or stopper that prevents it from being fully inserted, ensuring safety during use.
They're made from materials like medical-grade silicone, tempered glass, or steel, and come in a variety of sizes, shapes, and flexibility levels. The smaller, softer ones are designed for beginners, while the vibrating or weighted models are geared toward more experienced users.
Why use an anal plug for beginners?
Many people are curious about anal sex, but also afraid of pain, injury, or doing it "wrong." The gradual use of an anal plug is the safest way to overcome these barriers:
-
It allows you to get used to the sensation of dilation little by little.
-
Helps relax the anal sphincter , an involuntary muscle that needs time to adapt
-
Builds trust and control over the process.
-
It can be combined with foreplay and genital pleasure to increase arousal.
Furthermore, using butt plugs doesn't just prepare you for penetration. Many people find that anal stimulation generates self-pleasure, thanks to the high concentration of nerve endings in the area.
How to choose your first anal plug?
To get started, look for a model with the following features:
-
Small size (width between 2 and 3 cm maximum)
-
Fine tip and tapered body , to facilitate gradual entry.
-
Soft and flexible material , like medical silicone.
-
Wide and firm base , which prevents unwanted movement.
-
Optional: gentle vibration to stimulate without pressure
At Divino Secreto Shop You'll find a selection of beginner-friendly anal plugs designed for a safe and sensual experience from the very first moment.
Step-by-step guide to using an anal plug
1. Relax and set the mood
Find a private moment, without rushing. You can prepare some music, a warm shower, and lubricant on hand.
2. Use water-based lubricant
The anus doesn't lubricate naturally , so it's essential to use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant (depending on the plug's material). Apply it generously to the toy and the anal area.
3. Stimulate the area beforehand
You can massage the external area with your hand or the plug itself before inserting it. This helps relax the muscles.
4. Introduce little by little, without forcing
Hold the plug by the base, place the tip over your anus, and press gently. Breathe deeply and allow your body to receive it at its own pace. It should never hurt.
5. Enjoy the inserted plug
You can use it while masturbating, during foreplay, or just to get used to the sensation. Some people use it during sex, but others do, as long as the base of the activity is completely outside and fixed.
6. Cleanliness and hygiene
Always wash it before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a specific cleaner. Store it in a clean, dry place.
Can I use the plug during sex?
Yes, many people combine the use of plugs with oral sex, masturbation, or vaginal penetration, as anal pressure can intensify pleasure in other areas. But if you're going to move from a plug to penetrative anal sex, make sure you're well-trained, always use lubricant, and communicate with your partner.
Common myths about anal sex
“Anal sex always hurts”
False. If done without preparation or lubrication, it can be uncomfortable. But with a plug and time, it can be very pleasurable.
“Once it is extended, the year is never the same again.”
False. The anal sphincter is a muscle that contracts and relaxes like any other. It doesn't permanently "loosen."
“It’s only for certain tastes”
Completely false. Anal pleasure doesn't understand gender or orientation. It's an erogenous zone that anyone can explore if they wish.
Start safely, without rushing.
Using a butt plug is an intimate, safe, and empowering way to connect with your body and explore new forms of pleasure. It's not about reaching a goal, but rather enjoying the journey without judgment or pressure .
At Divino Secreto Shop, we offer a wide variety of anal sex toys, such as anal plugs for beginners, intermediate users, and advanced users, as well as anal vibrators . All of these are made with safe materials, with discreet shipping and personalized advice if you need it.
🔗 Discover our collection of anal plugs
📚 Check out our FAQs about anal sex toys
🛒 Or choose a beginner's anal kit with everything you need to get started safely
Comments (0)
There are no comments for this article. Be the first one to leave a message!